How To: Set the Thanksgiving Table (2024)

Presentation is everything, especially at Thanksgiving. It’s one thing to pile some lentils in a bowl when you’re eating by yourself in front of the TV, but when you’re serving the most important meal of the year, for god’s sake, it better look at least half as good as it tastes.

Now as you can see from the picture above, I go up to my mom’s for Thanksgiving, and she lives in a house with a not-small kitchen and an actual dining room with a big table. We take our time setting things up; I like to spread out as I bake, braid biscuits, and create place cards. One year, we even tie-dyed napkins (see above)-definitely not a small kitchen activity.

Nonetheless, most of these tips are applicable to the smallest apartment, even to Thanksgiving dinners hosted on the coffee table.

**How To Set the Thanksgiving Table**

Start with a white tablecloth. If you’ve read our book, you’ll know that we surprised ourselves by investing in tablecloths and actually enjoying putting them to use. You can find since you’ll be culling your table decorations from eclectic sources far and wide, it’s best to start with a blank canvas. Look for inexpensive tablecloths at Target.

Vary your levels. To create an exquisite-looking table, you want to have the various elements reach different levels. Tall vases are a great way to add some height; same for wine glasses. If your vases are short and your wine glasses are also known as tumblers, you’ll have to get creative. Try scouring out local vintage shops for inexpensive, cool bowls or plates with pedestals you could use to add some height. Get creative: random goblets can double as vases, and a cake plate you already own could be topped with a pile of gourds and become a centerpiece.

Choose a bright centerpiece. Which brings us to the focusing element-the centerpiece. My personal favorite is simple: a big, attractive bowl, filled to the brim with adorable gourds or a carton of clementines (the latter doubles as a part of dessert).

Fruits and veg. Like clementines, many of the edible parts of Thanksgiving are also particularly attractive objects. Buy extra squash, apples, nuts, bunches of kale, and dried fruit when you go food shopping for the actual meal. Then use them in bowls and other vessels around your house, not just on your table, to help set the scene. When aesthetically pleasing, you can actually set certain squash or very pretty apples straight onto the table (see image above). After you’ve finished with leftovers, you can eat these decorative, delicious fruits and veggies.

Color code. Everything on your table can and should play into the fall-ish theme. In fact, any object that happens to be orange, gold, yellow, or a warm shade of brown can and should be turned into a tabletop decoration. Even if you normally keep that pretty wooden bowl on your desk for paperclips, don’t rule it out (once washed), as a pretty place to pile candied nuts or dried leaves. We love Ina Garten’s tips from this post about matching your napkins to your centerpiece.

Mix buffet and family style. Some items, like the turkey, stuffing, and sweet potatoes, are served on platters so large you wouldn’t want to crowd the table with them. However, setting some food on the table before guests are seated, does help set the scene. The jewel tones of cranberry sauce or the glistening orange of glazed carrots, placed in small white or silver bowls, looks great on the table.

Candles. The glow of a whole bunch of candles screams “settle down, relax, and PARTY.” Opt for votives (they’re cheap). If you own candlesticks, get some pretty Thanksgiving-colored candles and light up. Clusters of stocky candles in shades or orange can look absolutely gorgeous.


Place Cards. This is where I really shine. You can, too. Over the years, we’ve made place cards as simple as folded index cards and as complicated as gingersnap cookies decorated in icing. We’ve written people’s names in permanent marker on mini pumpkins. Last year, we took mason jars, filled ‘em with pecans, decorated them with fabric, and added little name tags. Think about objects that evoke Thanksgiving, then imagine how you can customize them with guests’ names.

Pin it. For more ideas, check out our Tablescapes pinterest board.

Have a happy, and pretty, Thanksgiving!

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How To: Set the Thanksgiving Table (2024)

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How do you set a Thanksgiving table? ›

Align the bottom of the silverware with the bottom of the plate. Stemware should be arranged at the top right of the place setting. Top it all off with a napkin nestled inside a pretty napkin ring or try a fancy napkin fold. You can also add place cards or party favors to the setting.

How do you set up Thanksgiving? ›

A mixture of gourds and mini pumpkins running down the length of your table makes for a charming, autumnal table display. Flank your pumpkins with navy blue plates, linen napkins, and natural wood-accented silverware for a different take on Thanksgiving tablescapes.

How do you arrange food for Thanksgiving? ›

People naturally want to move from left to right at a buffet table, so take advantage of that flow: start with stacks of plates on the left end of the table, then follow them with the turkey (and any other big proteins you might be serving) and then heavy, starchy dishes like mashed potatoes and stuffing (and anything ...

What is the most important food on a Thanksgiving table? ›

A Thanksgiving meal is not complete until the turkey is on the table. Turkeys are large, so we get it, but they don't have to be intimidating. The one thing you can do to ensure a bird that stays juicy and doesn't dry out in the oven: Brine it! Get the Dry Brine Turkey recipe.

What is the proper way to set a table? ›

To the left of the plate, place the fork on the napkin. On the right of the plate, place the knife closest to the plate and then the spoon. Directly above the knife, place the water glass. To the right and slightly above the water glass, place the wine glass or a glass for another beverage.

What is on a Thanksgiving table? ›

Roasted turkey, stuffing. Mashed potatoes and turkey gravy, sweet potatoes, vegetable. Ours is green bean casserole. Rolls, salad, jello dish, cranberry salad or sauce and pumpkin and pecan pie!

How to decorate the table for Thanksgiving? ›

Spread Out. Blue and white truly go with everything, so don't be afraid to add autumnal shades and textures to your table. If you have a long rectangular table, create a sprawling centerpiece to fill the space. Fall veggies, fruits, flowers, and foliage are combined to create a twist on a cornucopia.

How do you set up a Thanksgiving dinner in a small space? ›

6 Thanksgiving tips for a small space
  1. Get an extendable dining table.
  2. Go for dining benches.
  3. Arrange a cozy seating area.
  4. Create an outdoor extension.
  5. Have a potluck-style dinner.
  6. Declutter your space.
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How many sides do I need for Thanksgiving dinner? ›

How many dishes should I serve with the turkey? For 4 people, choose 1-2 appetizers and 3 sides. For 8 people, choose 1-3 appetizers and 3 sides. For 16 people, choose 2-3 appetizers and 3 or more sides.

What are 3 main foods on Thanksgiving? ›

The traditional roasted turkey, dressing, mashed potatoes, candied yams, cranberry sauce and pumpkin pie are on almost every modern Thanksgiving menu, in some form or variation. This menu has evolved over time and continues to evolve today.

What are 4 common foods at Thanksgiving? ›

The 10 Most Popular Thanksgiving Dishes
  • Roast turkey. We've already filled you in on how to carve a turkey like a chef. ...
  • Stuffing. Good stuffing is key to a successful Thanksgiving dinner. ...
  • Mashed potatoes. ...
  • Green bean casserole. ...
  • Corn casserole. ...
  • Sweet potato casserole. ...
  • Honey-glazed Brussels sprouts. ...
  • Cranberry sauce.
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How do you set an elegant Thanksgiving table? ›

If you have a long rectangular table, create a sprawling centerpiece to fill the space. Fall veggies, fruits, flowers, and foliage are combined to create a twist on a cornucopia. Additional gourds and fruits are spread down the table, making the space feel full and complete.

What do you put on a Thanksgiving dinner table? ›

IF you mean a traditional American Thanksgiving dinner: roast turkey, gravy, stuffing, mashed potatoes, string beans, rolls, cranberry sauce; mushroom dish, maybe a salad or 2, maybe wild rice; pumpkin pie and/or apple pie.

What is usually on a Thanksgiving table? ›

The classic Thanksgiving dinner includes old-time favorites that never change: turkey, gravy, stuffing, potatoes, veggies, and pie. But the way these dishes are made or added to is everchanging because of food trends and different dietary requirements.

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